DON'T SHUT UP



Silence is not always the best answer, posture to take or step in life. There are moments when we just must break the silence and lend our voices to affect lives positively, to channel a right course, to make a difference, to bring about progressive changes among others.

Silence at such moments hold negative returns. There is no doubt that there are some cases in life where silence is considered important to yield good results but not in the following cases:

HERE are just a few cases where silence could be simultaneous to several demerits:
1. When you are faced with situations​ where the truth is needed, speak the truth!... Don't shut up!


2. When you begin to feel certain discomfort, irregularities & changes in your body system & health, generally, .... Don't shut up!..Report immediately...Time is important!

3. When you have an idea about something 'progressive' and you appear to be in the midst of a group of people who are finding solutions... Don't shut up!...Your idea might just be the one to bail everyone out.


4. When someone gets you vexed, don't just bottle up with wrong intentions or the 'I'm counting it for you/your cup will soon get full' syndrome...Tell the person about it... Settle it once and for all.. Don't give malice a breeding space. It could be dangerous. Don't shut up!

5. When you see the less privileged, poor & needy being maltreated, Don't embrace injustice/wickedness..Don't shut up! Lend your voice to detest it.

6. When you see people heading towards a 'pit' (for example, treading along the path of your undesirable past mistakes), Don't shut up! Warn them in order to avoid a repetition. Save them from needless tears..



7. When you come across any opportunity or offer which others can benefit from, Let them know about it. You just might be leading them to a better life... Don't shut up! Help a life!

8. When you have the opportunity to give people advice, make them good ones even if they end up not making use of it (@ least, for the records 'you warned them'). They can't come back to accuse you or see you as a bad person.... Don't shut up!



Yes! Don't shut up!!

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