I CAN DRESS MODESTLY AND STILL LOOK BEAUTIFUL

Indecent dressing is fast becoming an epidemic especially among young persons (especially among females). The rate of increase in immodesty is alarming as many have now thrown to the gutters the initial purpose of wearing clothes which is to cover their nakedness.

Another reason why people may decide to wear clothes is to appear 'presentable' and most importantly 'beautiful' but even this has been abused by some. I strongly believe that is not out of place in the 21st century to have young ladies who dress modestly and still look beautiful!

I have seen a number of them and this remains one of the reason they have gained my respect. It is the same for every other responsible guy out there. This is what some females fail to know. It is to that effect I've decided to join this movement #You can dress modestly & still look beautiful.

I totally agree with what Doug Herman,  the author of the book 'Come clean' said in his book. "God has created men to be aroused visually. Understanding this,  females have to be careful about how they dress. A female's appearance has incredible power over a guy.  And she needs to choose not to abuse that power. Females, please realize that we (males) think you are absolutely stunning. But you must try to be modest when it comes to clothing. We (males) are trying to develop self-control and self-discipline, but having you parade around wearing a thong bikini is a bit much. That kind of stimulation can cause a natural process to kick in".

Males are moved by sight. This should prompt you to treat your body with great importance. Exposing your private body parts will definitely not help matters. It's better you face reality now and mind the way you dress.

A major reason why any male may ask you for sex is because of indecent dressing. It's the truth! To stay off such sexual harassments, then you have to begin (if you haven't started) or continue (if you already do) to dress properly! When you have guys repeatedly asking for sex, that's one major area to check (Your dressing). Remember the saying 'the way you dress, is the way you'll be addressed'.

Some ladies will argue and say it doesn't matter. Men should learn self-discipline and control. Although it is true for males to embrace self-discipline and control and be responsible humans, what about others who willingly decide not to? Females say they are entitled to what they wear. Then you should be able to handle the situation when the 'bad eggs' start asking for sex and stop complaining calling all men dogs! Not all men are dogs!

Now, there is a difference between looking 'sexy' and looking 'beautiful'.  This is where some females miss it all!  Do you know what it means to look sexy?
The word 'sexy' means 'having sexual appeal or suggestive of sex'.

If your motive for dressing is to appear sexy then you may be heading in the wrong direction because you'll be calling for something you may not be able to handle (especially the consequences when you're not ready for marriage). The 'sexy' look has landed some into cases of rape.  I'll advice you keep your sexy look for your future husband (restricted at home).
Don't mix things up. You're more than just okay looking beautiful!

Here are the benefits you gain when you dress modestly:
• Respect from opposite sex.
• freedom from sexual harassments.
• It boosts your dignity and reputation.
• It makes you unique and different from the 'straying' ones.


It's also not enough to dress modestly and look beautiful but to also learn to sit properly especially in public.

Thumbs up to those who have been dressing modestly. To those who haven't joined the movement, it's never too late to. That way, we'll get to impact our societies positively!