FIVE THINGS LADIES AIN'T DOING RIGHT

1. Wrong poses in pictures. 

I've seen a lot of poses. I mean a lot. The worst of them all are common among females.

I seriously can't fathom who introduced such poses. It's surprising how someone you know stands upright in reality, now appears 'bowlegged' in pictures all in the name of making a pose to take pictures.

There are several good & 'on point' poses to wear too make your selfie or pic beautiful, just as there are several bad ones to make what you term 'cool' look horrible (sorry to say). Why wear poses that can affect your joints?

 I've had to take some people pictures only to get responses like "Be fast, Be fast, don't you know my leg is aching me"...Aunty, but why?

Please, wear the right poses and make your picture(s) awesome!


2. 'Over notice me' Syndrome. 

What do I mean by the 'over notice me' syndrome? It's a situation whereby ladies choose to be excessively noticed by other people. It's true that ladies like attention and being noticed but 'too much of everything they say, is bad'. Meanwhile, don't get me wrong. I'm not saying you shouldn't look good.

I'll give you a typical example. Some ladies intentionally choose to go for certain meetings or events quite late so that they can be noticed by all. In doing this, the most annoying part is where they now wear heels or high sounding shoes to make it so obvious.

Yes, you may get the attention you desire but you'll also get other name tags which include; Latecomer, disturber among others. But tell me what's the essence of being noticed in such manner?

If you really want to get not just noticed but also popular and respected, do something applaudable and worthy of commendation. Touch lives positively and make remarkable impacts. I'll prefer to be noticed that way.
There are several other examples but let's stop at one.


3. Wearing short gowns or skirts from home only to start pulling them down when you sight a guy approaching.

     I just had to express this thought this way. I couldn't find a perfect caption for this point.

I thought I was the only guy that noticed this behaviour in some females until a friend of mine also pointed it out. I'm not aimed at demeaning females here. I only want to address some wrong issues to bring to your notice.

     To be sincere, anytime I see cases such as this, I smile and end up hissing (no offence) asking questions 'Didn't she check the mirror before leaving home?', 'Was she expecting to have only female road users or school mates?' 'Did she suddenly become uncomfortable?' 

My questions notwithstanding, it remains a wrong behavior. Feel comfortable with your dress at home before leaving. Be confident with your outfit in public. Be modest. Don't make people see you as 'not serious' or disorganized.



4. Making sounds while chewing gum. 

It speaks of poor ethics and public behavior. Well, some people don't know about this. People chew gum for several reasons but chewing gum to create noise is certainly a bad one.

How do you expect someone to concentrate on doing more important things when all he/she hears close to him/her is the 'kpirakpakpa' sound flooding his/her ears? It's worse when there's a meeting going on.

You'll be doing nothing other than making others inconvenient which gives a bad impression about you.
It worse when we have guys doing this! It's simply a case of 'SMH'!


5. More emphasis on the outer, little on the inner.

This last point is the most important. Make-up has become trendy for a couple of years now. Seven out of every ten wear it. Several other trendy things are out there for ladies focusing on making them beautiful, howbeit outwardly but what is done inwardly?

It's nice to look good. Virtually everyone wants to but all I'm saying is pay more attention to your inner beauty.

 I sincerely wish the way make-up changes the faces of people is reciprocated in their minds. A prostitute who wears make-up remains nothing but a 'beautiful prostitute'. Nothing really changes!

Spend more time & resources on being the lady with good values, functional brains and a wonderful heart!

Having read these things, let's get to doing things the right way. Be that female with a positive difference!