FRIENDSHIP SCANDALS (Vol. 7)- GIVING ANGER A BREEDING SPACE.





   Getting angry during friendship is inevitable for several reasons of differing opinions, perceptions among others. This is common in cases of lengthy friendships and also early days of friendship.

 Several things could account for getting angry but that's not what's of great importance. The most important part remains that anger should be IMMEDIATELY managed, taking the right steps and not giving it a breeding space.



Giving anger a breeding space will produce the chain below:
Anger => Malice=> Pride=> Long break in communication=> false accusations & blackmail=> Slander => Hatred=> 'enemies' / 'strangers'.

The above chain passes a message across to us all. "You can only tell how anger began (presently) but you don't know the extent to which it can get to (in future) especially when poorly managed". Try and have a sort of foresight of your present actions. This way, you'll learn to treat things and issues with the mind of love and peace.


Do you feel angry about a wrong/wrongs done to you by your close pal or friend(s)? Tell it to him/her as soon as possible. Giving it a breeding space might be dangerous!
Peradventure you happen to be the 'causative agent​' of the anger or you're at the receiving end of this article, don't be heady! Admit your wrong, seek forgiveness and be peace minded!

Settle it NOW! Don't wait further!


Together, we can make our friendships better!

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